The World Cup Reminded Me I Belonged to Two Countries

A psychiatrist reflects on how the World Cup reveals our deep need for belonging, shared emotion, and human connection in an increasingly fragmented world.

From/about the article: Before we are physicians, Canadians, French citizens, immigrants, neighbors, or rivals, we are human beings looking for a place to belong.

For a month, the world behaves differently.

Strangers celebrate together in public squares. Airports erupt when a goal is scored. Cafés fall silent before penalty kicks. Entire countries seem to hold their breath at the same time. People who have never met hug. People cry over players they do not know.

Of course, the World Cup is about football. But it is also about something much larger.

As a psychiatrist, I find myself watching not only the game, but the people watching it. I notice the anticipation, the rituals, the collective tension, and the way joy or disappointment moves through a crowd before anyone says a word. Millions of people, separated by geography, language, politics, and history, become emotionally synchronized for ninety minutes.

 

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There are few experiences left that gather us like this. Modern life is increasingly fragmented. We work remotely, scroll alone, and consume personalized versions of the world. The World Cup interrupts that. For a brief period, people look in the same direction.

This year’s tournament felt different for me.

Last year, I became a French citizen. As I watched France take the field for the first time as one of my own countries, I found myself unexpectedly emotional. I expected to enjoy the football. I did not expect the quiet swell of belonging that came with hearing La Marseillaise.

Canada will always be home. It is where I built my career, where I practice medicine, and where I found my calling. Yet as the French flag was raised, I realized that identity is not always something we exchange. Sometimes it expands.

 

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For the first time, I wasn’t simply watching another national team. I was watching our team. That single word carried more emotion than I expected.

It reminded me that belonging is rarely about geography alone. It is about the stories we inherit, the places that shape us, the communities that welcome us, and the identities we gradually grow into. Our hearts are remarkably capable of making room for more than one home.

Perhaps that is one of the quiet gifts of sport. For ninety minutes, we are reminded that belonging is something we feel as much as something we define.

Human beings are deeply social creatures. Our nervous systems read one another constantly. We mirror emotion, sense tension in a room, and absorb hope from those around us. When thousands of people cheer together, the experience feels larger than individual happiness. Emotion becomes communal.

 

 

Sport also gives us permission to feel openly. In everyday life we often manage our emotions carefully. During the World Cup, people laugh, cry, pace, embrace strangers, and celebrate without apology. There is something profoundly healthy about that.

There is also hope. Every tournament begins with supporters believing, ‘Perhaps this time.’ In psychiatry, hope is rarely certainty. More often, it is the willingness to imagine that tomorrow does not have to resemble yesterday. Sport makes that visible.

The World Cup reminds us of presence. For ninety minutes, phones disappear. Work fades into the background. We cannot skip ahead to the outcome; we must live the moment as it unfolds. In an age of constant distraction, that kind of presence is rare.

 

 

As the final whistle blew, I realized that what stayed with me was not the score. It was the feeling. The feeling of sitting beside strangers who felt familiar. Of celebrating a country that had become part of my own story. Of remembering that even in an increasingly divided world, there are still moments capable of bringing millions of people together, not because we are the same, but because, for a little while, we choose to care about the same thing.

Maybe that is why the World Cup matters. Not because football can solve our differences, but because, every four years, it reminds us of something we are at risk of forgetting.

Before we are physicians, Canadians, French citizens, immigrants, neighbors, or rivals, we are human beings looking for a place to belong.

 

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